要不要出国留学?是令很多人都纠结的问题。虽说每个人的情况都有所不同,但权衡思路却是相通的。今天我们就来说一说,到底该怎么思考,才能选出适合自己的答案。
个人情况
经济情况
我们都很清楚,出国留学比在国内读书的花费多出很多。其中,除了出国之后可能会涉及到的学杂费、生活费之外,在出国之前也需要一定的花费,比如报班、咨询等为出国做好准备的花销。甚至于出国的交通费用也是一笔不小的开销。因此,即便是在学校有奖学金的情况下,依然是笔不小的负担。如果家庭状况良好,这个问题可以不用太纠结。对于一般家庭来说,是非常值得考量的一点。
学习状态
国内与国外的学习方法、考试机制、生活环境都略有不同。在出国之前,需要做好改变学习习惯的心理准备。同时,还要具备一定的自控力、独立性,生活和沟通能力,这样在出国后面对随时到来的挑战,就能做出很好的应对。如果还没有养成良好的学习习惯,对于自身的能力还没有一定的把握,建议仔细斟酌之后再做决定。
未来规划
生活规划
出国之前,需要先做好未来的生活规划,比如:自己想要怎样的生活?未来想要在国内还是国外?
之所以要考虑这个问题,是因为等我们出国学习、生活一段时间之后,必然会拥有自己在海外的人脉、圈子等。因此,在出国之前我们最好对生活做出基本的规划,理清思绪,多查阅资料,多向有国外生活经验的人咨询,根据接触到的信息作对比,再做出决断。同时,我们还要考虑自己是否具备能够在当地进行长期生活的条件。如果你确实有想要在国外工作生活的打算,那么出国读书着实是一件值得投入的事情。如果没有在国外生活的打算,可以结合我们后面的内容进行进一步思考。
工作规划
说完了生活,下一步就是工作了。关于工作规划,我们分两部分来说:
先说回国就业。公司选择聘用一个人会进行全方位的考量,并不会仅凭出国留学的单一条件进行判断。整体来说,如果要回国就业,更应该关注的是自身在所处行业的核心竞争力,如果自己想要参与的行业与国内的重点大学相对应,那么选择国内的大学其实更有竞争力一些。
当然了,出国留学不仅能获得学历,还有国际化的视野、流利的语言能力、跨文化交际能力。如果能够紧抓留学期间进行能力培养,回国之后的竞争力还是相当有说服力的。
如果你考虑在国外就业,希望能够在国外生活、工作,就应该了解国外的就业形势,以及自身能力是否可以适应海外工作。无论是在国内工作,还是选择国外,自身的能力永远都是最关键的因素。

出国建议
明确目的
凡事预则立,不预则废。出国之前明确自己出国的目的,你的规划会清晰很多,出国的收获也能够最大化。这些目的可能包括:
接受国际化教育,提升竞争力;
感受海外生活,体验不同文化;
打开国际视野,增长个人见识;
希望留在海外,寻找工作机会;
毕竟,我们出国留学,并非只为了一纸证书,而是为了更美好的生活。同时,无论你的目的是哪一种,当你明确了自己出国的目的,就有了理性判断的基准,甚至可以把不同的影响因素都列出来,逐个判断,最终做出自己是否要出国的决断。
选对时机
出国留学不是短期内就能完成的事情,不同的国家、学校要求都略有不同,包括语言考试、申请材料、签证办理等,都需要提前做好准备。
理性选择
确实,出国留学能够带给我们不少益处,但是如果有以下几种情况,反而建议将出国计划往后顺延一段时间:
出国随大流,只因为看到身边有人出国,自己也想去;
自控力较弱,很少自主安排自己的学习、生活、工作;
不做深度调研,仅凭偶然间读到的信息,就决定出国等。
总的来说,出国留学还是一件很慎重的事情,会对我们的未来产生相当巨大的影响,因而我们需要明确目标,结合自身实际情况,理性思考后再做出选择。
宋雨琦用痛失一个沙发的经历告诉你,不要轻易用中文和泰国人吵架,这让她当场滑铁卢的人是(G)I-DLE的泰籍成员Minnie。
Song Yuqi with the loss of a sofa experience to tell you, do not easily use Chinese and Thai quarrel, which let her Waterloo on the spot is (G)I-DLE Thai member Minnie.
吵架的一幕让宋雨琦当场无语凝噎,随后试图用推卸责任的方式来迷惑Minnie,没想到人家逻辑缜密到无懈可击。
The scene of the quarrel let Song Yuqi speechless on the spot, and then tried to use the way of shirking responsibility to confuse Minnie, did not think that other people logic rigorous to impeccable.
随后,宋雨琦开始用沙发应该买黑色的开始诡辩,再一次被Minnie击垮,不久后,Minnie在直播间中向观众展示了一下案发现场,并控诉道,宋雨琦在沙发弄上巧克力污渍时说第二天就会清理,结果一搁就是几个月。
Then, Song Yuqi began to use the sofa should buy black began to sophistry, once again was crushed by Minnie, soon after, Minnie in the broadcast room to show the audience the scene of the crime, and complained, Song Yuqi in the sofa to get chocolate stains said the next day will clean up, the result is a few months.
正在语音通话的宋雨琦深知逃无可逃,在不久后十分宠爱的奉上了自己因为吵架而输掉了沙发,还买的是Minnie最爱的灰色,让巧克力女士十分满意。
Song Yuqi who is on the voice call knows that there is no escape, and in the near future, he is very fond of serving himself because of the quarrel and lost the sofa, and bought Minnie's favorite gray, which makes the chocolate lady very satisfied.
围观整场事件前因后果的粉丝,在弹幕上将Minnie的中文能力排进了队内第二,有人说Minnie中文比舒华还好,这话传到了叶舒华本人耳中,还让其当场勃然大怒了一番。
Watching the whole incident of the fans, in the bullet screen will Minnie Chinese ability into the second, some people say Minnie Chinese is better than Shuhua, this word passed to the ye Shuhua himself, but also let its spot a rage.
身为组合中的外国人line,三个人光是站在一起,你就能感受到溢出屏幕的吵闹,而Minnie之所以有能让两位中国成员,纷纷抓狂的中文能力,离不开她显赫的家世。
As the foreign line in the group, the three people just stand together, you can feel the noise overflowing the screen, and the reason why Minnie has the Chinese ability to make the two Chinese members crazy is inseparable from her illustrious family.
成为女团中的端水大师,Minnie只需要做一个动作,那一幕是(G)I-DLE去电台节目上班的路上,记者们要求她们做出比心的动作。
To become the master of the all-girl group, Minnie only had to do one move, and that scene was when (G)I-DLE was on her way to work at a radio show when reporters asked them to perform heart-breaking gestures.
但Minnie手中拿着咖啡很难两边都照顾到,宋雨琦似乎也注意到了这一点,于是这比心的手势举也不是,放也不是,一个不注意就会变成队内不和的经典场面。
But Minnie holding coffee is difficult to take care of both sides, Song Yuqi seems to have noticed this, so this than the heart of the gesture is not, put is not, a not pay attention will become a classic scene of discord within the team.
关键时刻,Minnie把咖啡夹在肘间,一幅一家三口的世界名画就此诞生,此视频一出来,韩网夸赞Minnie情商高的帖子像雪花般霸屏。
At the critical moment, Minnie put the coffee between the elbow, a world famous painting of a family of three was born, this video came out, Korean net praised Minnie's post of high emotional intelligence like snowflakes.
而要问道造就这一场面的原因,就不得不提到外国line,在练习生生涯里的情比金坚,Minnie名原名妮查约塔拉克里,爷爷奶奶都是中国人。
And if you want to ask the reason for this scene, you have to mention foreign line, in the practice life of the love than Jin Jian, Minnie's original name Nichai Yotarakri, grandparents are Chinese.
所以Minnie是第三代泰国华裔,学习过四年中文,和知名泰国富二代李永钦和Lisa一样,Minnie的家世也十分显赫。
So Minnie isa third generation Thai Chinese, has studied Chinese for four years, and the famous Thai rich second generation Li Yongchin and Lisa, Minnie's family is also very prominent.
据资料所述,Minnie的爷爷奶奶经营着豪华度假村,爸爸是泰国第一家银行的副总裁,叔叔是泰国传奇钢琴家。
Minnie's grandparents ran luxury resorts, his father was a vice president of Thailand's first bank, and his uncle was a legendary Thai pianist.
因此Minnie的家庭被泰媒认定能排进上流社会前10%的位置,而能占据这一称号,至少要拥有100亿以上的财富。
Therefore, Minnie's family has been identified by Thai media as ranking in the top 10% of upper society, and to occupy this title, at least have more than 10 billion yuan of wealth.
虽然Minnie从小涉猎过中泰英日四国语言,但在去韩国之前是对韩语一窍不通的程度,练习了半年的听力,水平还是普普通通,因此没少被老师苛责,幸好Minnie坚持了下来,不然我们也不会再接下来发现她还有这么多宝藏的技能。
Although Minnie dabbled in Chinese, Thai, English and Japanese four languages, but before going to South Korea is the degree of Korean ignorance, practice listening for half a year, the level is still ordinary, so no less by the teacher criticized, fortunately Minnie insisted on, otherwise we will not find her next there are so many treasure skills.
开口之前,我一直觉得梦幻担当是个非主流的名字,毕竟谁能想到她的口哨能吹的这么好。
Before I opened my mouth, I always thought that dream Act was a non-mainstream name, after all, who would have thought that she could whistle so well.
据说当时全团正在准备首张数字单曲的录音,队长田小娟准备让Minnie录音的时候听到了她无意间在吹口哨,觉得这个声音非常合适,于是让她现场按照旋律吹一次,于是参与了这惊艳的口哨声导入部分。
It is said that the whole group was preparing the recording of the first digital single, captain Tian Xiaojuan was ready to let Minnie record when she heard her inadvertently whistling, feel this sound is very appropriate, so let her live according to the melody to blow once, so participate in this amazing whistle import part.
从此以后,田小娟就解锁了泰国队友的正确使用方式,在女团竞演节目里,Minnie在《LATATA》开头的泰语吟唱被称为入教现场。
Since then, Tian Xiaojuan has unlocked the correct use of Thai teammates, in the female group competition program, Minnie's Thai language chant at the beginning of "LATATA" is called the initiation scene.
此后《LION》的英文念白是她,红衣癫狂现场《put it straight》中的川上富江也是她,和凌厉硬朗的外表相反,Minnie的音色慵懒中带着一点点甜,在她口中,连泰语歌都没了往日的别扭,变得清新可爱了起来。
Since then, the English pronunciation of "LION" is her, the red maniacal scene "put it straight" in the Fujiang Kawakami is also her, and the opposite of the harsh appearance, Minnie's tone lazy with a little sweet, in her mouth, even the Thai song did not have the past awkward, become fresh and lovely up.
宋雨琦用痛失一个沙发的经历告诉你,不要轻易用中文和泰国人吵架,这让她当场滑铁卢的人是(G)I-DLE的泰籍成员Minnie。
Song Yuqi with the loss of a sofa experience to tell you, do not easily use Chinese and Thai quarrel, which let her Waterloo on the spot is (G)I-DLE Thai member Minnie.